Posted 41 minutes ago

Dezi Desire turned 2 today!

Happy birthday to an online presence of me I guess.

Posted 16 hours ago



…did…did Barbie just break the fourth wall. 

that is stacy you uncultured swine

This show is genuinely amazing. My daughter started watching it and I thought “Oh god, she’s watching a Barbie show” and then I watched some of it and it’s hilarious. Lots of geeky references, is based on actual barbie merchandise and breaks the fourth wall a lot and kinda makes fun of itself.

(Source: rrraquelle)

Posted 6 days ago
Rules of Gate Traveling is officially my new favorite blog.Sassgate.

Rules of Gate Traveling is officially my new favorite blog.


Posted 1 week ago
This is what my boyfriend yells in bed. Yes, this is my boyfriend.Oh yeah, a new commercial for Super Smash Bros on the 3DS is out. [x]

This is what my boyfriend yells in bed. Yes, this is my boyfriend.

Oh yeah, a new commercial for Super Smash Bros on the 3DS is out. [x]

Posted 1 week ago

This is so accurate to my childhood it’s hilarious.
My mother was and is a health fanatic who made mostly raw vegan meals and would put me on cleanses where I’d eat only nuts, salad and lemon water.

My biggest memories of rebellion when I was younger was hiding Mr. Noodle behind her potted plants and eating it when she wasn’t around, sneaking out to eat chilli from Tim Hortons, or my friends bringing me bags of chips.

(Source: thirliewhirl)

Posted 1 week ago
At what point do you take girls out of school altogether because boys can’t handle it?
Parent of a female teen whose school banned leggings (via onlinegf)

(Source: meetingsinthedesert)

Posted 2 weeks ago

Dezzart Photography is me behind the camera.
Photoshoot I did recently with amazing model and performer Riannaconda.

Posted 2 weeks ago
I was just scrolling through your blog and you're totally gorgeous! I wish I had the confidence you do, doing burlesque shows has always been a cool deal to me, but I have nowhere near the self-esteem levels. Also your Lying Cat mask is fabulous~
Anonymous asked

Thank you very much! I’ve been performing for two years now and modeling since 2009 and I still have things I’m self conscious about. I definitely have my times of being confident, but that has come with time, acceptance and working hard to be the person I want to be.

The main thing in my life that I’m thankful for is that I didn’t let my similar thoughts keep me from doing what I love doing. There were many times I thought “I’ll do what I want to do when my body is like this…” before I started performing or doing nude art modeling, I still don’t have the body I pictured I’d have to feel comfortable enough to perform and I’m so glad I didn’t wait because I would have missed out on the years I’ve spent doing what I love anyways. The beauty of burlesque is there’s no body type for it, I see it as an expression of self love that other people enjoy watching you show to the world.

Basically what I’m trying to say is I’m not on some confident pedestal far away from where you’re at and if you want to be where I’m at it’s reachable and I’m more than open to giving any advice I can offer.

Posted 3 weeks ago


very chilling topic on twitter right now. 

i have my own reasons for #WhyIStayed, and looking through this hashtag, i can see so many women and men who were lost, just as i was.

i stayed because it was the first time i felt important to anyone. he “loved” me. when he said he would die if i left him, i thought it passionate. when he started showing up unannounced at my house, because my friends told him my brother’s friends were over, i thought the jealousy was endearing.

then he tried to kill himself when i left town for two days. he was convinced that i would find someone else, in a town where i knew no one. i came back home, and promised i would never leave.

the manipulation and emotional abuse became physical—but only once. he slammed me against a wall after i made a joke about dumping him once i started college. i hid the bruises from my family, for weeks. that was the moment i decided to get out, no matter what happened. for some people, it only takes one time. others need more than one. and some people never make it out alive.

it is not always easy to “just leave.” it is a blessing if you are able to leave, with no consequences.

I’m not very active on my twitter, but this was something I simply had to join in on as it’s something I’ve gone through. I made two posts of my own and read through so many. It’s been a hard month or so dealing with these memories specifically and this has helped in a strange way. So many people who have made it out and share their stories on how it’s never so simple to just leave.

Posted 3 weeks ago

Lady Spock at a beach along the Voroth sea on Vulcan this summer. 

Model/Cosplayer: Dezi Desire [x]
Photographer: Addy Davies / Edge Photography